Another great TED talk is Brene Brown: The power of vulnerability. I mention it a lot in therapy. "Brene Brown studies human connection -- our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk at TEDxHouston, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share."
You may also want to check out her new book - The Gifts of Imperfection where she goes in detail about authenticity and being who you are instead of of "who you are supposed to be." Book Link
Trusting your intuition